Trauma Therapy in Scottsdale, AZ
and online throughout Arizona and Texas
You know something from your past is affecting you. Letās finally do something about it.
You know somethingās off. You just canāt seem to break free from itā¦
You can feel the weight of your past in your relationships, your self-talk, your reactions and you canāt always explain why
The same wounds keep showing up no matter how hard you try to do things differently
You carry shame that feels deeply personal even though part of you knows it isnāt yours
You feel on edge even when thereās nothing wrong, like your nervous system never got the memo that itās safe now
Your sense of who you are feels fragile or unclear, especially in relationships
Maybe youāve tried therapy before and got some relief, but something hasnāt shifted at the root
The gap between understanding your past and actually healing can feel exhausting
Whether you can clearly trace your patterns back to specific moments or just know that something has been off for a long time, youāre here because the way things are isnāt working anymore.
Maybe youāve spent years trying to figure yourself out. Maybe youāre just starting to make those connections. Either way, what youāre experiencing makes sense. Trauma doesnāt always look like one life changing moment. It can build slowly, through years of feeling unsafe, unseen, or not enough. Through learning to make yourself small to keep the peace. Through relationships that taught you love was conditional or unpredictable.
It gets wired into the nervous system long before you have words for it, and it can shape everything - how you see yourself, how you connect with others, how you move through the world.
Trauma often looks likeā¦
Nothing you do ever feels like enough. You hold yourself to a standard that keeps moving, and when you inevitably fall short, the inner critic is right there waiting. You work hard, you achieve things, and somehow it never actually makes you feel better about yourself.
Perfectionism
You get close to something good - a relationship, an opportunity, a version of yourself you actually like - and something pulls you back. you make choices you donāt fully understand, push people away, or find a way to blow things up right when they start to feel safe.
Self-Sabotage
The same arguments keep happening with different people. You either go quiet and shut down or you escalate faster than you want to. Connection feels important and exhausting at the same time, and youāre not sure how to stop the cycle.
Relationship Conflict
You apologize constantly for taking up space, for having needs, for not doing enough. You carry responsibility for other peopleās feelings as if it belongs to you. Even when you know logically you didnāt do anything wrong, the guilt is still there.
Chronic Guilt
Thereās a version of you that shows up for everyone else confidently, and a quieter internal voice that doesnāt believe any of it. Compliments donāt land. Criticism sticks forever. Your worth feels conditional on what youāre producing or how well youāre showing up for others.
Low Self-Esteem
Something happens and suddenly youāre completely overwhelmed. The reaction feels bigger than the situation and you know it, but you canāt seem to stop it. Afterward comes the shame of having reacted that way, and the whole cycle starts over.
Emotional Flooding
My Approach to Trauma Therapy
I work on two tracks simultaneously. The first is the day-to-day track where we are building stability, regulation, and the skills to navigate whatās happening in your life right now. The second is the trauma track - going back to the original wounds and doing the deeper processing work that actually creates lasting change.
The approaches I use are all designed to work beneath the surface. They donāt require you to narrate every detail of what happened. They work with your nervous system is holding, which means the healing happens at the level where trauma actually lives.
Trauma work is genuinely what I love doing most. Iām an EMDRIA Certified EMDR Therapist and Consultant with advanced training in dissociation, parts work, and complex trauma, and I stay actively engaged in ongoing consultation and training because this field keeps evolving and you deserve a therapist who evolves with it.
Your treatment is built specifically around you. Your history, your nervous system, your goals. We move at a pace that respects where you are, and Iāll always tell you what weāre doing and why. Youāre never just along for the ride. I vow to show up in a way that represents how meaningful this work is.
Trauma therapy can help youā¦
Finally close the gap between understanding your patterns and actually breaking them
Feel more grounded and stable in your sense of self
Build relationships that feel genuinely safe, supportive, and secure
Stop carrying shame that was never yours to begin with
Trust your own instincts, perceptions, and worth
Respond to the present without the past hijacking everything
Feel like yourself, maybe for the first time in a long time
Approaches I Use for Trauma Therapy
Frequently Asked Questions
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No. This is one of the things that sets the approaches I use apart from traditional talk therapy. EMDR, ART, and other trauma-focused modalities donāt require you to narrate every detail. We work with what your nervous system is holding, which means you can do meaningful healing without reliving every moment.
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There is a good chance and hereās why - A lot of trauma survivors have spent years in talk therapy, built a lot of insight, and still feel like something hasnāt shifted at the root. Thatās usually because talk therapy alone doesnāt reach the level where trauma actually lives. The approaches I use are specifically designed to go deeper than insight and create change at the nervous system level. If previous therapy felt like it only scratched the surface, this work tends to feel very different.
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I work with a full spectrum - single incident trauma, complex trauma, childhood trauma, and attachment trauma. A lot of my clients come in carrying years of relational wounding, chronic emotional neglect, or patterns that started long before they had words for them. Whether you can point to one specific event or your trauma is harder to name, we can work with it.
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It depends on what youāre working on and how your nervous system responds. Some clients make significant progress in a few months, especially with approaches like EMDR and ART accelerating the processing. Others choose to work longer when weāre addressing deep, complex, or attachment trauma. Weāll talk about realistic expectations early on and check in regularly to make sure weāre moving in the right direction.
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No. Trauma isnāt defined by how extreme an event was. Itās defined by how your nervous system responds to it. Years of feeling unseen, unsafe, or not enough can be just as impactful as a single major event, sometimes more so because itās harder to point to and name. If something from your past is still affecting how you feel, relate, or see yourself - itās worth addressing.
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Talk therapy helps you understand your trauma - where it came from, how it shaped you, what patterns it created. EMDR goes a step further by helping your brain actually reprocess the memory itself, so it stops carrying the same emotional charge. EMDR is what helps that insight translate into an actual shift in your lived experience.
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Finding the right fit matters more than finding the closest office. Look for someone trained in trauma-specific approaches like EMDR. Training and experience matter for trauma work, but just as important is the relationship itself. Research consistently shows that the therapeutic relationship is one of the biggest predictors of how well therapy actually works, so youāre looking for someone whose training you trust and who you genuinely feel connected to. A free consultation is always a good way to gauge both. You should walk away from a consultation call feeling like they understand what youāre describing, and like you could actually be yourself in the room with them.
You deserve to feel connected, grounded, and at home in your life.
This work is worth it, and Iād be honored to do it with you.
Trauma Therapy in Scottsdale, Arizona
Services offered virtually throughout Arizona and Texas
6609 N Scottsdale Rd, Suite G102, Scottsdale, AZ 85250