Post Induction Therapy in Scottsdale, AZ
and online throughout Arizona and Texas
The patterns you live out today were likely written a long time ago.
There’s a version of you that has never felt like enough.
You’ve worked hard to feel good enough and prove your worthiness but somehow the shame finds its way back in your relationships, in the way you talk to yourself, especially in the quiet moments when nobody is watching. Shame feels like it’s part of your adult identity.
You may have always given more than you receive from others. You tend to know everyone else’s needs intimately and struggle to name your own. You show up for people and forgive them when they don’t show up for you, and somehow that has become normal.
The patterns you are living out now are a result of your family of origin teaching you who and how to be, what you’re allowed to need or want, and whether you are fundamentally worthy of love, care, and acceptance.
What is Post Induction Therapy?
Post Induction Therapy (PIT) was developed by Pia Mellody, a pioneer in the field of codependency, relational trauma, and childhood wounding. It’s a structured, experiential therapy built on the understanding that many of the patterns adults struggle with in their relationships, their self-worth, their emotional regulation, and their sense of identity have their roots in childhood experiences that were never fully processed or healed.
PIT works from the premise that all children have core needs - to be valued, protected, guided with age-appropriate boundaries, and allowed to experience their reality as it actually is. When those needs aren’t consistently met, children adapt. They develop coping strategies that help them survive their family system, and those strategies become the patterns that run their adult lives.
The work of PIT is going back to the original template and understanding how your family of origin shaped your core beliefs about yourself and others. It connects the dots between what happened then to what is showing up now, and guides the reparenting work that allows those old adaptations to finally soften.
PIT is helpful if you find yourself…
Struggling with codependency, giving endlessly, and losing yourself in relationships
Carrying deep shame that feels like it’s a part of who you are
Having difficulty knowing what you feel, need, or want
Attracting relationships that mirror painful childhood dynamics
Feeling responsible for other people’s emotions
Struggling with boundaries - either having none or using them as walls
Experiencing a persistent sense of not being enough or being too much
How Post Induction Therapy Works
Most trauma therapies focus on specific traumatic events. PIT focuses on the developmental environment - the cumulative experience of growing up in a system that couldn’t meet your needs. It’s not just about processing what happened - it’s about understanding who you learned to be because of it, and doing the work to build something different.
PIT is both structured and experiential, which means we’re not just talking about your childhood. We’re working with it at a felt level. We build a thorough picture of your family of origin, look at what you needed as a child and what you got instead, and begin identifying the wounds and messages that have been shaping your patterns ever since. The goal is never to assign blame, but to finally make sense of the template.
From there we move into deeper work - healing those wounds at a felt level, and doing the reparenting work that allows the old adaptations to finally soften. This means learning to nurture yourself with compassion rather than criticism, affirm your own worth, and set limits that come from values rather than fear. You’ll build a new internal relationship with yourself that isn’t governed by the old wiring.
My Training in Post Induction Therapy
I’ve completed specialized training in Post Induction Therapy, and it’s become one of the primary lenses I bring to trauma and relational work. PIT isn’t something I layer on top of other approaches as an afterthought. The developmental framework it offers shapes how I understand nearly every client I work with. If you’ve spent years wondering why certain patterns feel so deeply wired into who you are, this is often the work that finally makes it make sense.
I often integrate PIT with EMDR and other approaches depending on what you need. PIT and EMDR work particularly well together - EMDR helps process the specific memories and experiences, while PIT provides the relational and developmental framework that gives the processing lasting meaning. Every treatment plan is built specifically around you, your history, patterns and what will be most effective for where you are.
Frequently Asked Questions
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PIT is a highly specialized modality with a relatively small number of trained practitioners. Pia Mellody’s work has been foundational in the field of codependency and relational trauma for decades, but formal PIT training requires significant commitment and isn’t widely available. Working with a PIT trained therapist means you’re getting a clinician who has invested deeply in understanding developmental trauma and family of origin work at a level most therapists haven’t.
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No, and this is one of the most important things to understand about PIT. Research shows that childhood emotional neglect (the chronic experience of having emotional needs unmet) can be just as impactful as more obvious forms of trauma.
Think of it like water on a rock. One drop doesn’t change anything, but thousands of drops over years? That’s what shapes the landscape. Many people who benefit most from PIT grew up in families that looked functional on the surface but where emotional needs were consistently minimized, dismissed, or shamed.
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Reparenting is the process of learning to give yourself what you needed but didn’t consistently receive as a child - validation, comfort, appropriate limits, and a genuine sense of your own worth. In therapy this happens through experiential work, building a different internal relationship with yourself, and developing the capacity to meet your own needs in ways that weren’t modeled for you.
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Think of PIT as the map and EMDR as the vehicle. PIT helps us understand the terrain - what happened developmentally, what it meant, and how it shaped your core beliefs about yourself and others. EMDR then helps your nervous system actually process and release what it’s been holding from those experiences. Together they work at both the cognitive and somatic levels, creating change that sticks.
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PIT tends to be deeper and longer term than symptom-focused therapy because we’re working with patterns built over an entire developmental period. That said, clients often notice meaningful shifts relatively quickly in how they relate to themselves, how they respond in relationships, and how much emotional space they have. We’ll talk about realistic expectations early on and reassess regularly.
You didn’t get to choose how you were raised.
You do get to choose what happens next.
Post Induction Therapy in Scottsdale, Arizona
Services offered virtually throughout Arizona and Texas
6609 N Scottsdale Rd, Suite G102, Scottsdale, AZ 85250